In my younger days, my sister and I were blessed to have spent a few summers in Japan. Some of the most wonderful memories are of times spent with my great-grandfather. He couldn’t walk much, and so oftentimes I would take him his meals upstairs. I was a little scared, a little nervous, as a kid you aren’t sure what to expect from someone who is so much older than you are. I have only a few bits and pieces of memories left of him - how he was always listening to the stock market on the radio, how he liked to talk, and how he always had a bit of inspirational knowledge to share. It was his version of the morale of the story.
As we get older, we go through life’s experiences, meet different people, go through the good times and the bad. Through all this, we begin to question ourselves, “what is the point in all of this?”. Most in their quarter-century life crisis, like I did, begin to wonder what all of this, is all about. Many hit their mid-life crisis, look at their lives in retrospect and wonder “what is the point in all of this?”… we all do, at all points in our lives, continually question, what this, our time here, is all about.
My great-grandfather went through a tremendous amount in his lifetime - the foreign influence on Japan in the late 1800’s through the pre-internet age of the late 1980’s. But some of life’s lessons are timeless…
“You will have 3 great opportunities in your life. They may not seem obvious to you at that moment in time, but in relative time, it will reveal itself.”
Its funny, there are certain points in life I can recollect where a single decision or outcome has changed my entire life’s course… was this part of my limited number of opportunities? As I cross another hurdle in life’s trenches, I continue with optimism that this is the right direction of my life’s path.